What makes me tick ...

I regularly get the question of people,
"How did you get, where you are now ? "and

What do you like about what you are doing ?"

So I thought i will share this with you on this blog.

First of all I love to share my knowledge and insights with others as they brought me where i am now. Happy inl life, my relationship, as a mother, financially independant...
So it is my intention to inspire and empower people to bring them to the next level of their life.

Second All my life i had lots of insights already. There is not a day where i do not have ideas or insights that could help me and others ahead in my life. I was often asked for suggestions. For Years and Years I only shared them with my friends, but as it was not satifying enough for me, i decided to share my knowledge with a wider public by becoming a professional coach, trainer, writer. Now i enjoy being able to share all i know with the world and i feel preveliged to have reached the stage where i can do so.

Third i have seen so much unhappiness around me, my father who died when i was nine (by intention) my stephfather and mother .... There were many things that created their unhappiness : unfulfilled dreames, lack of self-esteem , unharmonious relationships, financial hardship, unhealthy patterns like addiction, adultary, mental and physical batterment ...
They were unfortunately also envious of others who were wealthy, happy, successfull, instead of creating it themselves. I thought by myself when i was young, "this could not be true" This is not possible" "Life could be better than that, it should be possible to become happy and successfull at the same time but how ? So it became it kind of a quest for me to become happy, successfull, wealthy myself ; and to be able to teach it to others later.

Fourth the first 10-15 years of my marriage i was not very happy and especially not happy with myself. Now i know by my own experience with the help of the teachers and education i followed I become more self-confident, happy with the years, more happy in a relationship (even if this person is from another culture and religion ) And learned how to fall in love and feel connect with my partner again and how to make a healthy new start
Professionally I learned how to develop my career from a secretary to international marketing manager, to a coach, trainer
Now, Everyday i feel like i am on holiday. As i choose freely how my day will look like that day.
I teach what i learned over the years and enjoy writing, coaching, training, sharing, developping new products and partnerships. I make sure that every holiday with my family is a manificent experience. And intensif our family connections as much as possible.
I feel that i am blessed that i reached this stage and i think everybody can if he wants to.

Fifth : People also ask me "how can you be succesfull and managing three companies at the same time? First of all i do not do it all alone. Some activities i focus on, others my husband focusses on and some we do together.
For every activity we have a special mission and we have a mission that combines all of our activities. We know our ultimate goal and every service is complementary to others. Overall we want to make a difference in peoples life, offering services that help them to create more wellbeing in their life. And that is what makes us tick in general.

Sixth - As a coach I most of all enjoy to see the evolution of my clients even after one session, where they are stressed, unhappy, and where they leave again with more insight, new tools, a new prospective, more sense of direction, a smile on their face.
And ofcourse when i receive a testimonial in which they describe how they advanced in their life through coaching with me, that gives me the feeling
that i am truly making a difference....

Seventh : I feel it as my duty, having received many qualities at my birth, like all of us;
to use them to the optimum, develop them and and share them with others as much as i can.
To ultimately make this world a better world, where people know how to get rid of their
lack of self-esteem, envy, and take their life in their own hands, know how to connect, know how to integrate more happiness and succes in their lives.

Eight : last but nog least
In my opinion, the more happy and wealthy people there are in this world,
the less anger, the less wars, and poverty there is in this world.

Less fear and hatred => more constructive construction and intense connections
instead of destruction and seperation.

With my services i do my share to make a difference in this world
as a lifecoach, nlp therapist, relationshipscoach and colourcoach, trainer and writer
I want to help this world to become a better place, a haven or all of us,
starting to create small havens around me
"bombay inn with my husband; for people to relax, destress, and enjoy the delicacies of an other world continent
"Forrentinbrussels " a haven for expats in brussels, with affordable colourfull residences

"Favoritefloridavilla": a place to totally destress, enjoy familyconnections and the joys of life
"Unique You Institute" "and this blog a haven in brussels and online the recharge batteries, become inspired and empowered to go to the next level of your life !

And by writing ; i want my books to be havens for periods and moments in distress, wherever you are in the world...
I will inform you when my first book is out.

Creating these havens is what really, really makes me tick ...
My intention is to create havens worldwide, but i need your help !
If you think this blog is valuable for you and or for others you, please forward this blog to as many people as you can....

Wishing you happiness, success and lots of joy and laughter !

Livia