Wednesday, March 7, 2012

quotes about success in life


Action is the fundamental key to all success.
Pablo Picasso

Always: bear in mind that your own resolution to succeed is more important than any other.
Abraham Lincoln

Belief in oneself is one of the most important bricks in building any successful venture.
Lydia M. Child

Defeat is not the worst of failures. Not to have tried is the true failure.
George Edward Woodberry

Develop success from failures. Discouragement and failure are two of the surest stepping stones to success. Dale Canergie

Diligence is the mother of good fortune. Benjamin Disraeli

Don't aim for success if you want it; just do what you love and believe in, and it will come naturally.
David Frost

Failure is success if we learn from it. Malcom Forbes

Flaming enthusiasm, backed up by horse sense and persistence, is the quality that most frequently makes for success. Dale Carnergie

Formal education will make you a living; self-education will make you a fortune. Jim Rohn

I don't know the key to success, but the key to failure is trying to please everybody.
Bill Cosby

I've failed over and over and over again in my life and that is why I succeed.
Michael Jordan

If you want to achieve things in life, you've just got to do them, and if you're talented and smart, you'll succeed. Juliana Hatfield

In order to succeed, your desire for success should be greater than your fear of failure.
Bill Cosby

In this world it is not what we take up, but what we give up, that makes us rich.
Henry Ward Beecher

Most people give up just when they're about to achieve success. They quit on the one yard line. They give up at the last minute of the game one foot from a winning touchdown. Ross Perot

No man succeeds without a good woman behind him. Wife or mother, if it is both, he is twice blessed indeed. Harold MacMilan

One secret of success in life is for a man to be ready for his opportunity when it comes.
Benjamin Disraeli

Success consists of going from failure to failure without loss of enthusiasm.
Winston Churchill

Success has a simple formula: do your best, and people may like it. Sam Erwing

Success is a science; if you have the conditions, you get the result. Oscar Wilde

Success is blocked by concentrating on it and planning for it... Success is shy - it won't come out while you're watching. Tennessee Williams

Success is dependent on effort. Sophocles

Success is falling nine times and getting up ten. Jon Bon Jovi

Success is getting what you want. Happiness is wanting what you get. Dale Canergie

Success is how high you bounce when you hit bottom. George S. Patton

Success is simple. Do what's right, the right way, at the right time. Arnold H. Glasow

Success is simply a matter of luck. Ask any failure. Earl Wilson

Success is that old ABC - ability, breaks, and courage. Charles Luckman

Success is to be measured not so much by the position that one has reached in life as by the obstacles which he has overcome. Booker T. Washington

Success seems to be largely a matter of hanging on after others have let go. William Feather

The common idea that success spoils people by making them vain, egotistic and self-complacent is erroneous; on the contrary it makes them, for the most part, humble, tolerant and kind.
W. Somerset Maugham

The ladder of success is best climbed by stepping on the rungs of opportunity. Ayn Rand

"The successful always has a number of projects planned, to which he looks forward. Anyone of them could change the course of his life overnight." Mark Caine

There are three ingredients in the good life: learning, earning and yearning. Christopher Morley

When a man feels throbbing within him the power to do what he undertakes as well as it can possibly be done, this is happiness, this is success.
Orison Swett Marden

Pity the man who inherits a million and isn't a millionaire; He is what would be pitiful, if your income grew and you didn't.

The great successful men of the world have used their imagination
they think ahead and create their mental picture in all its details, filling in here, adding a little there, altering this a bit and that a bit, but steadily building - steadily building. Robert Collier

The difference between a successful person and others is not a lack of strength, not a lack of knowledge, but rather in a lack of will.
Vincent T. Lombardi

The man who has done his level best... is a success, even though the world may write him down a failure. B.C. Forbes

The measure of success is not whether you have a tough problem to deal with, but whether it is the same problem you had last year. John Foster Dulles

The most important single ingredient in the formula of success, is knowing how to get along with people. Theodore Roosevelt

The person who gets the farthest is generally the one who is willing to do and dare. The sure-thing boat never gets far from shore. Dale Carnegie

Most successful men have not achieved their distinction by having some new talent or opportunity presented to them. They have developed the opportunity that was at hand. Bruce Barton

Would you like me to give you a formula for success? It's quite simple, really. Double your rate of failure. You are thinking of failure as the enemy of success. But it isn't at all. You can be discouraged by failure or you can learn from it. So, go ahead and make mistakes. Make all you can. Because remember that’s where you will find success Thomas J. Watson

Success doesn't come to you, you go to it. Marva Collins

The successful always has a number of projects planned, to which he looks forward. Anyone of them could change the course of his life overnight.  Mark Caine

Monday, May 2, 2011

Skills for success in your love life




True success in life, true happiness in life requires one of the most important aspects in our life.  A good Loving relationship.

We all need love in our life, but to be truly successful in life we
need especially A Lasting love Relationship.

We can have a great career but if our love life sucks than our life generally sucks as well partly or entirely. Especially if we do not have a good love life for a longer period of time.

For many years people underestimated the importance of learning relationships kills and choosing the right partner.

And it is logical, we did not hear that we should go to school to learn relationship skills! We are supposed to possess them automatically ....

The consequence : the many divorces in today's world.

Unfortunately A divorce does not only create misery for ourselves but also for our children and our children’s children.

A non successful love life has been proven to have a serious impact on the next generations and the society overall.

Simply said, Today’s society is seriously suffering from the consequences of bad marriages in the past. For centuries marriages have been created for the wrong reasons (pregnancy, pleasing parents, unawareness of self )

And today Many people stay single as a result of that; afraid to create themselves a similar bad relationship as their parents.

Honestly it is not difficult to find the right partner and to create a lasting love relationship with your partner. If you know what you want and, are willing to learn the most important communication and relationship skills.

It is therefore time to learn how to avoid a divorce, how to communicate fruitfully and how to date effectively for the right partner. It might be late for many, but it is never too late.

If you consider yourself to be one of the above, it is time to create success
in the most important part of your life: Your Love Life

I suggest you come to my next coming up seminars
8 may - dating skills and networking day
22 may - what men and women want each other to know.

Make Success in your love life possible, for you, and future generations to come.


Livia Németh


Sunday, May 1, 2011

It all starts with you














Success in life all starts with you.

Whatever you want more of in life, remember it is not far away,
it is not beyond your abilities.


Success in life, in any aspect either in your career,
your love life, your daily life, your relationships or your finances.
It all starts with the most important person in your life, which is you !


Invest in you and, you will make the best investment you can ever
possibly make in your life.


How can you invest in yourself?  This can be done by empowering yourself with new life skills & new life experiences, which are sometimes outside of your comfort zone.
Steeping out of your comfort zone will allow you to grow beyond all your expectations
in whatever aspect of your life.


If it is uncomfortable for you to apply for a promotion: Just do exactly that!
If it is uncomfortable for you to date, although deep in your heart you
really want to have a relationship: Take the step and start dating.


There is something you must know!
If you do the same thing over and over again, you get the same results.
If you have not attained results in your career or in dating or any other desired aspect of your life, be honest with yourself and start learning from what you know and, have learned from the whole experience and importantly reflect on how you have achieved this success.


It all starts with honesty and the willingness to improve and learn more.

Even though you already have achieved success in your career; Job, Finances or Love life, Never stop learning strive to achieve more. Those that stop growing will
start shrinking and after a while their skills and their mindset will dwindle.
Do you know people like that?

Do not allow yourself to become one of them, instead become a student for life. I call myself a student for life. Because it is not really about what we achieve but, more about
who we become as a person after achieving.


Do not set yourself low expectations, instead, set high expectations that are a daring and challenging for you as a person. Set Expectations and Dreams that will make you ultimately a better person.

Many people set dreams that are purely selfish, whether it is a career, finances or relationships
.

Always ask yourself does this dream or this expectation make me a better person?


By realizing the dream or expectation:
Will I become more of an example for others?
Will it allow me to grow?
Will it be of benefit to others in this world as well ?



Remember it all starts with You, make sure that you become truly A better You!


Cheers to Success in life and a better you!

Livia Németh

Friday, January 22, 2010

How to make New Years Resolutions work for you

A New Year is a New beginning, A new chance for you to bring yourself
to the next level. But how can you breakthrough the old habits?
The old habits block you and, stop you bringing yourself to that next level.

Breaking through old habits is not something you will do in a day, nor in a month
that is probably where true misunderstanding is.

Many people think that if things do not work out after 3 weeks, "let's stop
is does not work anyway."

And at the same time they feel guilty of not obtaining their new resolution
for that year.

Now ask yourself the question, "if it did not work out once or in this period of three weeks, does that mean it will never work out?"

"Does learning, something, obtaining a new habit or skill, require practice?"
Indeed: Imagine someone wants to ride a bike: Will he be able to ride a bike if he gives up on it after it did not work the first few times?

No Indeed. He will need to keep this goal of being able to ride a bike all the time in his mind so he will continue to have the courage to step on that bike and try again and again.

What do most people do, before quitting on their new years resolution?
They find all kinds of reasons, why they will never be able to do it.

What kind of reasons?
Let's take the example of riding a bike.

If one continues saying to oneself that he/she cannot ride a bike
he/she also has to give reasons why to make this belief stronger, so what kind of excuses could this person make?

Here are some examples
One says to oneself
"my parents were also not able to ride a bike, so I will also not be able to do it"
or one says to him/her self:
"it is not the moment right now, maybe another time" so postponing into eternity

or "If the bike itself was blue I could do it, but this bike is red and I hate this colour" so it is normal that I cannot ride a bike and one ads :

"oh yes and I do not have the money to buy a bike with another colour, so lets forget riding a bike" or one ads, "oh, I am so busy, it takes too much time to learn how to ride a bike" so this is not for me"

or "I expected people would help me, but they are all too busy apparently, so actually it is normal that I cannot learn to ride because I need to be able to count on others"

or "I was told that you need to be good at math’s to be able to ride a bike, but I am not good at math’s, so let's forget about it"

Now this may sound funny and stupid.


But the fact is that many people do make these kind of excuses on a daily basis, without wondering whether the reasons are really legitimate. And in the meantime they have to bear the consequences of not realizing their new years resolution ...

Let's now change the word "learning how to ride a bike" for another sentence, like "learning a new language" or "learning how to cook", "quitting smoking" or
why not replace this sentence with your new years resolution ?

You will see it sounds totally different.

So, there is a reason why one stops feeling the need to do what one promised to oneself.
The reason one gives oneself for taking a decision of not continuing doing something can happen in a blink of an eye. Even when one sits in a car, or cleans the house.
But the consequences are forever.


By what is the trap? Why do people make so many excuses?
It feels safe, we all like certainty, and many of us like to be right as well.
So when one gives oneself many reasons, one feels one is right and that can give a temporary good feeling, although this feeling is just temporary, because the next moment one could feel guilty.

And the more one repeats the same reasons, the more one feels certain about it.
It feels safer. It's a kind of self-hypnosis. But the feeling of safety is a trap. This is a limiting safeness, not one that helps to you to expand and realize your dreams.


What are the other consequences of repeating the same reasons over and over again?

- One can feel totally hopeless, and tired. Which is normal? One tires oneself with reasons why it cannot work.

- There is a high possibility that one will also feel angry. One can be angry with oneself but, it is more easy just to be angry with others, silently or by reproaching them.

- One can also feel guilty, as a part of one knows that he can do more.

So let’s look beyond the fact and the piece of the puzzle and look at the total picture :

The importance is shifting from realizing the resolution to the reasons for not doing it.

So when one puts all ones eggs in one basket is there a chance to get realize what is in the other basket?

Indeed, it is not possible.

So how do we make a new years resolution work for you anyway?

Here 7 steps to make your new years resolution work for you:

1. Never quit, quitting is like giving up on yourself and your ability to achieve it. With the consequence of lowering your self-esteem and confidence.

2. Do not make any excuses, use all your energy to focus on what you wish to achieve. Enpower yourself, by using your energy in the disired direction

3. Find ways to help you realize your resolution, in a better way. For example joining a self help and support group that you can make realizing your resolutions easier for you. In February I start such a group and you can join it at any time.

4. Do not become angry with yourself, this will make you feel bad and you will have even less energy to continue. So accept that you are human, but you will make it work anyway sooner or later.

5. Do not blame others, because then you take away your own power to make something work by yourself.

6. Realize that to feel good about yourself and getting a good sense of self-esteem
you need to fulfill your needs. If you made this new years resolution, it must have been important to you, you must have a deep need to make it come through.

7. Remind yourself that Even if it does not work out in the first few weeks of the year ... This does not mean it will never work out. And say to yourself; 
"As long as I did not try 100.000 times like Einstein did, I have no reason to quit"


Finally the last tip :

Give yourself the gift to fulfill your needs and make your new years resolution work for you anyway!

You deserve it!


Livia
"How to get yourself to the next level"